Why men don't understand women

It sucks that the opposite sex always assume that the planning part depends entirely on us, women and when we get to the part where we want everything to be completely PERFECT, they will start thinking that we have become a twisted queen control madam and wish we can be simple minded n just go with the flow.

FYI it takes hell a lot of time and energy to plan on an event, what else to say the big day. So yes, we want it to be as perfect as possible so that it's worth all the time, energy and not forgetting money wasted. And yes we do look on the details and if something insignificant like pls fill in the blanks guys means that the world is going to end  real soon and i will sulk for maybe 10 mins? Tell me what's wrong with that. If you want us to be more sane and less uptight, why don't you try to switch places with us for a day. Go on decide on the theme, colour, arrangement and what not but this does not mean that you get to choose whatever that you have in your plate. Instead try to make it meaningful and memorable. HELL-O you wouldn't want to treat the big day like any other day right?? If your answer is yes then you can go to hell because you don't worth to be anyone's husband  in other words, good luck with finding a women to be your wife.

ps: this post has nothing to do with my future to be husband and me. He helped me a lot in the preparations. It's just a reminder for all the dudes who just don't give a damn to the wedding but still wants to get married. pfft!